The Lord’s Prayer

He knows… 🙏🏼👍🏽🇩🇴✈️🌹

An International Agreement 

I need US to be on one accord, just like the day we met in the DR.

When we both were mesmerized by each other’s unique personalities and neither of US could not clearly see why you were in pursuit of me.

When the language we spoke to each other was politically different, and neither of US could fully understand, but we both knew we wanted the same thing.

Just like we both know now, today, that we need each other, but neither of US have a plan on how to make this work without a higher power.

One accord with HIS will and not our own because we are powerless in the name of love.

A text, a kiss, a twist of fate may be keeping US together.

Let’s just be on one accord; an international agreement.

That’s 2 deep for him🏊

His/Her Needs

I know his needs. I am a woman who loves her husband.
He needs:
1. To be respected at all times.
2. To be treated as if he is number one.
3. Attention, hugs, and mind stimulation.
4. To make love to his wife regularly.
5. A good home-cooked meal and
6. His bath water ran after work on a rainy day.
7. His feet and his back rubbed.
8. To hear from me daily.
9. To know I appreciate him.
10. For me to communicate with him in more ways than one.
11. To pray for him on more days than one.
12. To be forgiving.
13. To be authoritative.
14. To be financially responsible.
15. To be a great mother to our children.
16. To take care of him if he gets sick or unemployed.
17. To love him, unconditionally.

Do I do all these things? Ask him…

I know her needs. I am a man who loves his wife.
She needs:
1.  Honesty and trust.
2. Financial relief.
3. To be spiritually fed.
4. To know we share the same vision with our family goals.
5. To support her in everything she does.
6. My strength and to know I will protect her.
7. A strong male figure who is also a good father figure.
8. Hugs, kisses, humor and material surprises.
9. Most of all, she need me to be faithful.

Do I do all these things? Ask her.

#JustLuvSeries

In November 2015, I started a series of quotes called the #Justluvseries. I started this series because after losing my husband, I became vulnerable. I didn’t realize it was vulnerability back then, but I had placed some boundaries and rules to protect my heart. Was I looking to love again? Yes.

I wanted an escape to fulfill a fantasy where tasteful wishes come true. I wanted him to ask for anything he wanted. I was seeking pleasures of a true climax, but I didn’t want to question why.

I became compassionate, sympathetic and started to love others to motivate them. I begin to give without expecting anything in return because some of my high expectations caused unnecessary anxiety when things didn’t go my way or when I felt like I wasn’t getting what I wanted in return. Then I realized that two people may never love each other the same way and that my love cannot be measured. You know, love can be uncertain; but I took the risk yet trying to protect my heart.

So I started to be more transparent because people will judge you anyway. I wanted to let go of who I thought I was supposed to be and embrace who I really was. I had inhibitions with desires and fantasies that had me pondering on where I should be in relationships and looking for certainty, then I started to just believe in love.

I started to inspire others to dream bigger than their current situations. The true art of giving creates a peace within. I began to trust the Lord in every situation and I understood that my love was sacred. I wanted to fall in love with someone who fell in love with me. I love this quote by Brene’ Brown, “You can’t get to courage without waking through vulnerability. Period.”

And with that said, although I was vulnerable, I decided I wasn’t going to let my love be influenced by misconceptions. Within me, I had the power to love and I did just that.

These acronyms we live in…

OMG, ICB it’s been over a year in this LDR with my SO and IDK if I’m cuming or going. (LOL)
IMO, he will always be BAE and even though he is miles away, he’s still my MCE.
I long to see him F2F ASAP bcuz he is a QT.
Besides, YOLO so I might as well enjoy his XOXO!
TBH, I think he is the GOAT.
But FR, IRL I’m JK, (SMH) yet KMSL.
So with all that said, here is my QOTD…
NALOPKT but at the EOD
He is… the LOML!
Jjjjj ~ MUAH ~ BESOS