Are you happy with the idea of the marriage, the white crisp wedding with family, friends, flowers, food and festive drinks, elaborate gifts and the honeymoon?   
You should also be happy with the idea of sacrificing your time, your talents to make the marriage work. 
Happy with the idea of intimacy and sex? You should also be happy with the idea of compromise. To give in when you really don’t feel like it or when you feel as if they do not deserve that intimate time with you. 
Happy with the idea of financial stability? You should also be happy with the idea of supporting your spouse between unemployment or underemployment during an economic crisis. 
Happy with the idea of bliss? You should also happy with the idea of forgiveness when the time comes to face the challenge of hurt or disappointment. 
For better or for worse

For rich or for poor

For sickness and in health

It’s your choice for sure.