Greetings, I received an phone call from an unknown number when I arrived at work today. At first, I could not recognize the voice, but after a few seconds I realized it was a good friend of mine. I sat down at my desk and we began to discuss his business plans for the week and then we moved on to his relationship matters. After a lengthy conversation, he said, ” I didn’t say she was not the one; I’m just not sure if she is the right one.” I replied, “Isn’t that like 50/50? He then proceeded to say, “If you would just marry me, we wouldn’t be having this conversation.”
I was listening to him, but I also had other people behind me having a conversation. I became distracted by the dichotic listening in my space. As I began to come back to the conversation, my brain was processing his last statement. I was asking myself, did he say that to her or was it her speaking to him? No, wait! I replied, were you directing that statement at me? I totally burst into laughter, because I realized how easily I am distracted by other sounds around me. Like, it just literally went over my head when I heard him say that. My response to him was, “Well if that was a proposal, then yes! I DO!” (ROFLOL) Sunday, July 24, 2016 in Costa Rica! We both laughed.
That little bit of laughter made my day; stay in the moment! Focus!